Sunday, May 28, 2017

Tonsils aren't so Important

Warning! Long post ahead. I found so many parents had forgotten the details of their child having a tonsillectomy, that I decided to record everything.

 JMC has had large tonsils for as long as I can remember. At least, compared to his older siblings' tonsils, they appeared exceptionally large. When he was 3 years old, the pediatrician checked them at our request, and said they are large, but that it isn't a problem unless they get infected or cause sleeping problems.

Fast forward to this past winter. JMC (along with his siblings) had his first ear infection ever, and shortly after that, he began to snore. A few months later, the snoring got worse, and we also noticed some bouts of sleep apnea. So, off to the doctor again, and this time he was referred to an ENT. (He had a white film on his tonsils, and when the nurse performed the strep check, the giant Q-tip got caught for a second in between his tonsils!)

The ENT visit was interesting. First, there were a bunch of questions by a nurse. She declared that just by hearing his voice, she could tell he needed to have his tonsils removed. She took a picture of JMC for their files (at first he opened his mouth wide for the picture, thinking she wanted a picture of his tonsils!) Then the physician's assistant came in, gave JMC a check over and said it was definite; he would need tonsils and adenoids out. After his assistant, the doctor came in. He also checked JMC's throat, ears, and lymph nodes in the neck, and said it was certain that the tonsils and adenoids should come out, and sooner than later, since they were causing sleep apnea. (And the white film was actually food particles that were getting trapped there!)

JMC wanted to ensure that he would be fully recovered before summer was in full swing (mainly, before the pool opens) so we scheduled his surgery for May 11th. They sent us home with a lot of information, including a comic book in the style of the Magic School Bus to explain to JMC exactly what was going to happen during and after surgery. That comic book helped a lot!

In preparation, we tried to make as many sorbets and dairy free ice creams as possible, in all sorts of flavors - mango, blueberry, strawberry, vanilla. Papi made vanilla pudding, JA made white grape gelatin, and JT made vanilla custard. We also made pear sauce, applesauce, and pureed vegetables (carrot, sweet potato, and butternut squash.) They said it was common for children to lose weight during recovery, and I wanted to do everything possible to prevent that if I could. It ended up that we had over prepared, but there was no way to know that before hand.

The night before JMC's surgery, we prayed over him as a family. We would be leaving so early in the morning, I wasn't sure if the other kids would be awake, and I knew they wanted the opportunity to pray for him. It was so sweet hearing their concern for their brother, especially from JL, who's only 3 years old. JMC prayed, too, that all would go well, and that  it wouldn't hurt too bad. (Grandma blessed us with a visit so she could watch JA, JT, & JL, while Papi & I went with JMC.)

All smiles
The morning of the surgery, everything went smoothly. We arrived on time, and I was more nervous than JMC. We they called us back to see him in the recovery room, I was shocked to find that he was in pain. I had thought he'd be loopy from pain meds, but instead, he had just received his first dose of medication, and it hadn't kicked in yet. :(  He was crying quietly, and looked up at us with the saddest eyes I've ever seen. I crawled into bed with him (partly because there was only 1 chair in the room, and partly so I could hug him and pray over him). This was the most difficult half hour of the entire recovery. He was in pain, and there was nothing I could do to help. I prayed over him, hugged him, and let him squeeze my hand. He drank several small sips of water, and asked for a green popsicle (which he didn't eat) and mostly just cried, until he fell asleep. (I later realized that they need to be sure the child comes out of the anesthesia and is breathing fine before they can give a pain medication. Makes sense. In the moment, though, I just felt awful for my little boy.)

Luigi (baby snow leopard) received a red magic glove, too.
Holding my hand :) 
We stayed in the recovery center for 3 hours, due to the extra precautions taken with children after anesthesia. During that time, JMC mostly slept. He woke up several times for quick sips of water, and a few times to use the bathroom (he received 2 bags of IV fluids while there,) but he mostly just slept. Papi left for awhile to drop off the prescription for pain medication, and was back in plenty of time before we were released.

He asked for this picture, to show he made it through the surgery. We had just got home at this point.
When we got home, JMC went downstairs to watch a movie with his siblings! He ate a fruit puree popsicle, and relaxed. After the movie, we had him go upstairs to take a nap. We had set up a cot in our room for him, and I'm so glad we did. He slept on and off, waking up every 4 hours for his pain medications. He slept an hour past medicine time once and was in nearly as much pain as just after surgery, so we didn't let that happen again. Most nights for the first week, he would wake up on his own when it was time for medicine.

On a cot in Mami & Papi's room, resting until the medication kicks in.
For the first week, JMC didn't talk much at all, and even invented a type of sign language to communicate. He talked the most when playing board games with Papi and JT. :) His favorite drink was apple juice, and he mostly ate dairy free yogurt and vanilla ice cream (an equal mix of homemade and store bought.)
Playing "Monopoly Deal" with JT & Papi was a good distraction.

Note the styrofoam cup & straw filled with apple juice & a popsicle wrapped in a napkin in the glass. He had to take a sip of juice or bite of popsicle after each turn as a way to encourage him to stay hydrated.
The first 3 or 4 days were about the same, and then things improved, which is when JMC asked to stop the prescription pain medication and stick with over the counter options. Then, there was a dramatic decline on day 7. That is when we had to give the prescription med again at night for 2 nights, and keep up with the over the counter medicine during the day. By day 8 though, he was better, began asking to eat more foods, and began talking again. By day 10 he had stopped all medications completely. JMC kept asking when his 2 week check up would be, and took that appointment as a sign of being completely healed.

Each day for the first 6 days or so, JMC received a get well card; from family members, friends, and even the staff at our church. These cards cheered him up, and it encouraged him to know that others were thinking of and praying for him while he recovered.

I just missed Luci sitting nicely and letting JMC pet her.
We recently had the 2 week check up, and everything was great. The doctor did say JMC would probably have pain when coughing for up to another month or so, so we need to try and keep him healthy (makes me thankful we did this is the spring, rather than the winter!) His sleep apnea has improved, and snoring has basically stopped. The snoring did take awhile to go away, simply because he was swollen for the first week or so. Now that the doctor has given the all-clear, JMC has returned to his room, and is back to his cheerful, talkative, playful, self. :)

Mami reading the first Harry Potter book to JMC for the first time. He can't wait til we're through the book and he gets to watch the movie with his older siblings. JT is pretty excited about that, too. :)

After about 5 days, he decided he wanted pancakes, and then proceeded to make himself a peanut butter pancake sandwich

A smile!

Playing with Luci

The night JMC received the all-clear from the surgeon, we celebrated by going to a local frozen yogurt place.

Monday, April 17, 2017

JT's 10!

JT turned 10 years old today, and I'm not really sure how I feel about it. He's grown up and matured so much, I'm not taken by surprise at all. At the same time, though, time is just flying by.

What does a 10 year old boy want for his birthday? Birthday pancakes, pizza (not a common thing when you're gluten and dairy free), and spaghetti. He thought he wouldn't get a cake since he'll have one at his party, so he asked for cookies. I made him root beer flavored cupcakes as a surprise. ☺

The kids were excited to choose gifts, and it was so neat to hear their thoughts on what he would like.

Apart from the food, JT also requested a family game day. So we played a couple board games, a game of kickball with the new bases JMC gifted him, and a bunch of Mario kart on the Wii. JT also went to his viola class, and requested a last minute trip to the library. 😀 What a fun, yet low-key day!

Bacon pancakes were another surprise.

I think JT looks like his cousin, ACS, here.

We didn't get to the Easter eggs until after dinner tonight! JT didn't mind.

Monday, December 12, 2016

Wisconsin Dell's

Last year, our children decided to put their Christmas money together and use it for something that would be fun for the whole family. Their first idea was to install a DVD player in our minivan. Well, after a few phone calls, we discovered that the cost would be more than $2,000, much more than their combined Christmas money, even if Juan & I matched their contribution. And, the kids agreed that having a DVD player in the van wasn't worth that much anyway.

The next idea was to stay at Grand Bear Lodge in Utica, IL. Some friends had invited us to stay with them in the spring, and we all had a great time. Well, their money would get us 1 night in a regular hotel room, with 1 day at the indoor water park. With our friends, we had stayed in a vacation villa, and enjoyed the water park and adventure center, so the comparison wasn't good enough for the kids.

Papi and I were proud (and a bit surprised) at the kids' desire to wait for the right opportunity to spend their money. There were a few times throughout the year that one or another would consider pulling their portion for a more immediate purchase, but they ended up being patient and waiting.

This fall, I saw a post in one of the local home school groups on FB that someone had a timeshare at Wisconsin Dell's to rent out. The cost was just less than our children's saved Christmas money. So, first Papi checked to see if he could get the time off work. Once his time off was confirmed, we checked, and the timeshare was still available. So, then we talked with the kids. They all agreed that a 2 bedroom, 2 bath, apartment, with a kitchen and living room, plus 3 indoor water parks, for 4 days/3 nights was definitely worth their Christmas money. So, nearly a full year after they received these gifts of money, we enjoyed a wonderful family vacation.

Of course, there were a few hiccups along the way, just to make things interesting. JL got pink eye the weekend before our trip. Took her in to the pediatrician Monday morning while Papi packed the van, and the doctor said she not only had double pink eye (an uncommon, though not concerning version of it, at that) but she also had a double ear infection. So, our trip was delayed a bit for her appointment and while we waited for her medications. (The doctor did say she was free to go swimming.) While JL got better throughout our trip, JA got sick. She first got the ear infection, and the day we headed home, got the pink eye, too.

Another funny story is how we set off the smoke alarm while making dinner. I deglazed a pan with broth, and the steam that rose up set off the alarm. The front desk called to see if we were okay, and while Papi talked to them and followed their instructions (turn on stove vent, open all windows) I debated evacuating the kids and checked to see if the alarm was going off in the hallway. I didn't know at first that the steam caused the alarm to go off because it wasn't an immediate reaction. The alarm was only going off in our little apartment, and no one was evacuating. After a few minutes the alarm stopped and all was well.

The first day we went to both nearby water parks (less than a 10 minute walk, indoors the whole time) in the morning and again in the evening, with lunch, naps, and dinner in between. During nap time, JT and Papi played Bingo in the lobby, and JT won a gift card for the arcade, which he shared with the family. One water park has a wave pool and a young child area. The other has water slides, a lazy river, a small young child area, and a hot tub.

All children under 48"were required to wear a life jacket at all times. JT chose to wear one in the wave pool, but not in the shallow areas, since he is right at 48". :)

The second day, we went to the 3rd water park, which we could access via a free shuttle service. It was about a 10 minute drive. We made sure to bring a change of clothes, because the temperature was about 20, and that's a bit cold for being outside after swimming. Even so, it was after this that JA's ears began to hurt. :(

After swimming, waiting for the shuttle to bring us back.
Papi took JT and JMC out walking each afternoon, waiting for JL to fall alseep. If she's still awake, she doesn't let JMC take a nap. They were so worn out after a couple hours' of swimming each morning, that they both napped each day we were there (JA and Mami took naps, too!)

We didn't play this game, but were impressed with the size of it. We did see another family play it several times, and they never won.

The evening that JA was sick, JT and I went swimming on our own, and Papi stayed back with JA, JMC, & JL watching a movie.  JT took me on a double tube water slide, and I introduced him to the hot tub. After I rested for a bit, we went on the water slide again, and then back to the hot tub. Before we knew it, we'd been there at the park for an hour! 
The last morning, the kids decided to use their leftover Christmas money to buy souvenirs and play some more at the arcade. It was cute watching them each pick out a souvenir.

This is a video game that involves shooting giant spiders. 

JA made quite a few baskets!

Baby-wearing at it's finest. :)

Car is loaded up, we're all checked out, and ready to drive home after a quick stop at a local restaurant.

We didn't go here, but it was right next to where we stayed, and made us think of one of our nieces. 

We did stop here before leaving the Dell's. Everything here is plant-based (vegan), so we enjoyed key lime and chocolate espresso "cheese" cakes, and Papi had a banana split. We also had hummus, and milk steamers. Everything was delicious, and the people were very friendly. This is the only time we ate out while in Wisconsin, and it was definitely worth it.

JA turns 12!

At breakfast, she reminded me that in a year she'll be 13, and only 2 years later she'll be 15!

This year, JA had a complete menu planned for the day, and it wasn't until the night before that she had any ideas of activities, her thoughts had been centered on the yummy food she wanted. :) So, we had birthday pancakes, atole de elote, Red Robin for lunch, shrimp scampi for dinner, and pumpkin pie for dessert. For fun, we went to a local nature preserve, and Grandma, JA, and I went for pedicures. All in all, a great day!

Saturday, December 10, 2016


This fall, JT began learning to play the viola through the String Project at our local university. For 10 weeks, he met each week with the whole orchestra (all beginners in 3rd or 4th grades) and also in a small group of just viola students. The classes are led by a university professor and university students studied to become music teachers. Last night, they had their first concert. Here are a few of their songs:

Swim Team

(Originally written September, 2016. Update below.)
This summer, the boys participated in swim team for the first time. JMC was invited to join the team by his swimming teacher, and JT asked to join the team with his brother. At the beginning of the summer, they had each had 2 semesters of lessons, and though comfortable in the water, neither one could actually swim.

By the end of the first week, JT could swim the backstroke an entire length of the pool (25 yards)! It took JMC several more weeks, and he still prefers lessons and practices (when his teacher is in the water with him) to meets when he is on his own. By the end of the season (after about 6 weeks) JT could swim freestyle, backstroke, and breast stroke; JMC could swim freestyle about 15 yards.

Swim lessons begin up again this week, and I'm excited to see how much they'll continue to improve. JA takes swim lessons, too, and we hope that she'll be able to join the swim team next summer as well.

Update: JA, JT, & JMC all participated in swim lessons this fall, and the most improved was JA! She is now excited to try swim team next summer. Lessons begin again in February, and I'm sure they will all continue to improve. :)

Tuesday, September 13, 2016

A Big Move

Last fall, we began investigating the possibility of moving from the mobile home to a house. It took about 6 months of looking into things, but we got the go ahead in March of this year. We began looking at houses, and also began to prepare the mobile home for sale.

Papi put in new floors in the kitchen, both bathrooms, and the laundry room. He also replaced the kitchen faucet, and the insulation under the girls' room (thanks to a smelly raccoon family who had moved in!) Before we even put up the for sale sign, we had some interest, just through word of mouth in the neighborhood. Then, we put the sign up, and had received a few different offers, though not all at the same time. Just as one offer would fall through, another would come up. A contract was signed the end of May, the night before I left for the annual Lilla Rose convention.

When we began looking at houses in March, the very first house we walked into was a definite possibility. This was in March, though, and our mobile home hadn't sold yet, so we were not in a position to make an offer on it. We just kept looking at houses, two or three every few weeks, and waiting for our house to sell. We did visit that first house again, after we had seen about 10-15 others, to see if it was still our favorite. In mid-May, the house was taken off the market. I was a little disappointed, but knew God would have the right house for us when the timing was right. Our realtor looked into things and said the house was still for sale, just temporarily off the market. So, once our house sold, we made an off on that first house. It was accepted that same night(!) though it took over 2 weeks to get the purchase agreement signed and official.

The boys at our celebration dinner. (The pics uploaded out of order...)

The shrubs removed from the front and back on after the first day of yard work.

This had been completely filled with shrubs and weed-trees.

Amazingly, this is after the first round of cleaning. There had been several metal dog crates, a pool, and other assorted garbage. Originally, we didn't know the concrete slab was there.

After the first round of tree removal in back.

JMC helping under JL's watchful eye (and I was right there taking the picture.)

Family room before we painted

We knew going in that that house was being sold "as is" and that there would be some work required before moving in, as well as for a few years to come. We were able to inspect the house (well, Juan & his friend J inspected the house, even the attic(!), I walked around and reminded myself of the layout and room sizes, since it had been 2 months since we'd last been inside.) That inspection relieved some concerns, especially in regards to having to gut the bathroom; it needed a very thorough cleaning, and some new fixtures, but we'd most likely be able to put off a complete bathroom remodel. This was great news.

Beginning to move kitchen things over, before replacing appliances

JA helped paint the family room

Watching the city workers pick up the shrubs from the curb

One of our first meals at the new house, before we had moved any furniture over.

After painting.

After removing the overgrowth from the front

All of the furniture was moved in just 2 trips with a pickup, a minivan, a 15 passenger van, and a trailer. Note the playhouse on the roof of the van. :)

More helpers. I think I counted 13 or more that day, plus the people watching our kids and helping pack.

In July, we were notified that we could move in 2 weeks before the closing, which gave us 1 week to work on the house before we had to be out of the mobile home. This also saved us the hassle of moving to a rental home for one week and putting everything in storage. That week working on the house was amazing! So many people came over and helped with a million different tasks; cleaning the bathroom, painting the paneling, removing wallpaper, pulling out shrubs, removing a raised flower garden that was improperly placed, cutting down tree/weeds, and much more. Other friends watched our kids during the day so I could get work done at the house. 

The downside to all of this is that had been the week set aside for packing, so when moving day came, the mobile home wasn't ready. No worries though. While some people were moving the furniture, others stayed back to pack the kids' rooms, the kitchen, and even the master bedroom. What a blessing that was! I was at the new house directing traffic, and Papi was at the mobile home directing things there. The deadline to be out of the mobile home was 4pm Monday, and we did it, just barely. 

Grandpa and Papi moving out the old washer and dryer

JL helped "decorate" her new room. :)

Papi and his friend J bringing my new washer and dryer

The first big rainstorm brought some unwelcome surprises in the form of water through the entryway light. Papi fixed the problem the next day by putting up flashing where the 2 levels of the roof meet and no flashing had been put up.

Papi working on the roof

Moving round 2 of overgrowth removal to the curb

Checking out a toad that was found hiding under the branches

It's so exciting watching them haul the branches away.

The girls at our dinner celebration after the closing.

Mami & Papi after the closing.

JMC, Papi, & Grandpa removing the old rusty dishwasher

New dishwasher and oven delivery

The boys filled a little pool the neighbors gave us. 

Pictures of the front & back of the house before we did any work to it.Look at all that overgrowth!

There is still so much to do at the new house. 7-10 years' worth of yard work that we still haven't caught up on and quite a bit of interior work to be done, in addition to finishing the wonderful task of unpacking. The important things are done though. Carpets have been cleaned, and we can change the flooring in a few years; walls have been wiped down (previous residents were heavy smokers) and the rooms are slowly getting painted; all the appliances have been replaced (a true necessity in this scenario); and most of my books have been unpacked. :)

We have big plans for this home, and would love to stay here for quite some time. We'll do a little each year, and as needs arise. As far as our plans to stay here, those are just our plans; we'll have to see what God has in store for our family. Whatever His plans are, they will be good.